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Anonymous

I am someone who is in severe manic depression right now in my life. My little eleven year old angel (Whom) was my only child passed away 35 days ago. I am having a very difficult time in how to cope with this, and I think my panic attacks are even more unbearable because my precious little girl left me so unbelievably sudden. I didn't have time to prepare myself, and most importantly I didn't have time to say goodbye to my baby.

My family, friends, and the man that I love so dearly are completely NOT knowing how to deal with me, or how to help me. I feel like everyone is trying to either figure out how to deal with me, or they are just there (More less) feeling guilty for me; so that's why they are around. I feel like they are doing it more for themselves.

The man I love and whom I have cared for for such a long period of time, is so selfish that even when I call him crying at night....he doesn't answer; and will tell me the next day that he is busy with his nephews (Who are precious as well), but it just hurts. It hurts because the VERY few people I have turned too... Keep letting me down. NOW! I mean, I don't want no one to baby me, but I find it so very selfish of him and a friend who I have always been there to just treat me that way.

They see that this is my most horrible time in my life, and they are more concerned about having to deal with me than to really just be there for me.

I miss my daughter so much that I just pray to God to let me die. There is no point for me to go on right now. There is no hope and there is no happiness anymore.

Please someone help me. Please.

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tammy

Hello ,
I wanted to let you know you are not alone in this,i lost my son 3 years ago .
he was 27 and it was sudden also.
my husband of 20 years told me to get over it a week after he passed ,so that shows his support .my only daughter was his best friend and took it so hard i could not talk to her because i was busy upholding her...i have cried but a few tears .i gave it to god ...he told me i gave him to you as a gift and he was not yours to keep as i gave my son also to you he had to return to me.
it gave me great comfort knowing what a gift he gave me,we celebrate his life and the good times .i wish you all the love the angels can bring you and strength to carry on..

Anonymous

Iam so sorry that you have been going through such a rough time. But don't call it quits!! I can't say that I know how you feel, because I don't. I have a friend that lost her son of 16 yrs to drowning and she still has times when it is hard. I can relate to the depression that you are feeling though. I know that you don't want to take pills, but sometimes it is critical. See a doctor about something that you only have to take for a little while. You will feel much better. My friend did this and she was able to stop taking hers once she felt in control again. I am sorry that the ones that are the closest to you don't understand. My husband did not understand either. I began seeing a psychiatrist and a therapist and I am much better. Sometimes it helps to have someone explain to those who do not understand what you are going through. You carried your child for 9 months and then you lost her. No man or woman can empathize unless they have been through it. Please get Help!! It won't take all the hurt away but you will be able to deal with it much better. I will pray for you.

a brown

i am so sorry. i thought my problems were huge and wound up on this site and now i know my problems don't compare. really, so sorry and though time will help it must seem so far away. i can't imagine but know people whom you don't know are thinking about you. don't end your life. you will look back and be glad you didn't.

Anonymous

I won't begin to say I know how you feel. I am terribly sorry you lost your daughter. Be strong for that is what she would want from you! Please get help! I know it is tuough to ask for or want but it will do good for you. People say hurtfull things and do hurtfull things it's in our nature but the lord is forgiving and does great things for us. If you are not involved with a church try to find one. Most churches offer help for situations like these and offer to help you find the lord. Please stay strong and remember that no matter what happens you are important! God Bless!

Lou

I am so sorry for your loss, there is nothing worse than what you are going through, I can only imagine. There's nothing anyone could say to make things better, my only advice is to seek a support group and always be around people, even if you feel the people around you are doing it out of guilt, just take advantage of their company during this horrifying and shocking time.

Judy

My heart truly goes out to you and I know there are no answers to stop the pain. I read a book recently called 'Heaven is Real.' by a Mr. Burpo. His son died and went to Heaven and his Dad tells what the Sons experience was. It was so amazing and even though I am usually very skeptical, I felt as if the boy was telling his true account of what happened. I know it is difficult to read and concentrate after such a devistating experience, but I think this book will give you peace of mind and can explain what happens after we leave this Earth...May God bless you and ease your pain..

Anonymous

My heart goes out to you. I am just so very sorry. I want to help you and I feel so sorry that the people you have turned to have turned away from you. I am thinking of you and praying for you. I am feeling much the same way my self right now. I can't even help myself. Take care and I hope you find the strength to go on and I hope I do also.

Carrie

I am so sorry to hear about your loss and appreciate all the great comments and support. I have lost my 25 year old precious baby girl -- but she is actually alive, only dead in spirit and heart due to drugs. I am feeling the same despair and know that one of these days I am going to get the call that she is gone forever. All I can do is pray, and I will pray for you as well. Try to keep strong, remember, that is what she wants you to do -- she really is your angel looking over you when all those who should be supporting you have abandoned you. Carrie

nick

First I want to let you know that I am a male in his mid 30's and I never post anything, but the phrases you used felt so vivid to me I had to tell you. I have had many deaths and just loss in my life at such an early age that I almost gave up on life. When I was 25 my best friend was murdered right next to me. I cant explain to you what I felt but I do know I felt alone. When you are a male you can't exactly talk about feelings and it sent me into a tailspin. I eventually looked for help and one therapist saw through my crap and actually listened and helped. Without her guidance I might have done something horrible. I just hope you find that person or god or whatever and are not faced with the horror I faced. I do know what its like to feel as though nobody cares. People will surprise you and this coming from a guy who dodges his neighbors to not speak so I wont get close to them. You will comebsack stronger just dont let that emotion go inward instead use it! Use it in your childs memory use it for you. Use it for all the right reasons to honor the fact that the people who truly love us get it back. Remember the good things about your child and celebrate you had those moments. I morned my old life and wasted a lot of time relying on others. Learn to rely upon yourself it makes you a stronger person. Life is a learning experience I hope you NEVER experience these feelings again yet you will see that the worst things for you can help others as well just knowing we arent alone. Find peace in your life and you will feel a life full of peace.

Sue-Ellen

I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss and that you are hurting so much. I couldn't imagine what it would be like to lose a child, unbearable pain I'm guessing. Big hug to you, I hope you can feel the love from the caring people who have responded to your post. I've experienced grief through the loss of my mother and was in a very depressed state afterwards. The one thing that helped me was Rose Otto essential oil. It enabled me to break the bed-ridden state I was in. Also, words of wisdom from the likes of Betty Eadie who wrote the book 'Embraced By the Light' and another book that helped me was 'Heaven Waits - Bridget's guide to the Hereafter'. You may be separated from you beautiful girl for now, but you will always remain connected in Spirit. 'She has not gone, she is just away'. Peace and love to you.

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